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Coping with Sadness, Guilt after Nursing Home Placement

Coping with Sadness, Guilt after Nursing Home Placement
Article Updated:October 14th, 2019

Many people have heard their parents say this at some point, "Whatever you do, promise me you won't put me in a nursing home." Have you heard these words? The fact is few if anyone ever wants to be in a nursing home. Nor do family members desire to force the issue with an older parent. Many times, without an advance plan, this becomes the end result. In some cases, even with advance planning, a nursing home is the best option. If you are dealing with this now you may feel guilty even though it may be the best thing for your family member. How do you deal with this guilt and depression? What have you done differently than your parent so your family will not have to go through the same thing?

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So what have you done differently than your parents?

Affordable Long-Term Care Insurance will provide the resources for quality caregivers in your home, adult daycare, assisted living as well as nursing homes. It will also safeguard assets since the cost of care is very high. Many plans offer case management which will help your family make recommendations when the time comes you require care. This eases both the financial and emotional burdens that long-term care creates. The time to plan is well before you need care ... plan prior to retirement. Don't place your family into the guilt of crisis management because you failed to plan.

Tips for Planning

Long-Term Care Insurance is very affordable but there are a few tips to consider as you start your learning process:

  • Premiums are based on AGE and HEALTH as well as the benefits the policy offers. Start looking into plans ideally before you retire – age 40 to 65. Plans are still available for those over 65 but some options might not be available due to health or costs.
  • Work with a specialist. A vast majority of financial advisors or general insurance agents don’t understand how these plans really work, they don’t understand underwriting and how it differs from each company, they tend to not understand the benefits of the partnership program which is available in most states and they recommend benefits way larger than you may actually need. A specialist will work with all the top companies, have at least 500 clients with Long-Term Care Insurance policies so they know how these plans work at the time of claim, and can give you affordable options that are based on your situation.
  • Partnership Policies- Most states do offer partnership plans which offer additional dollar-for-dollar asset protection. Be sure to learn how these plans work.
  • “Hybrid” plans are available which are life insurance or annuities with riders which pay for long-term care. Generally, these are single premium products which offer some or all your money back if you are lucky enough to never require care. Be careful here and work with a qualified Long-Term Care Insurance specialist since these types of policies can differ drastically on how they work.
  • Even a small policy will help. Keep in mind most claims start and end at home. Most people will prefer to be in their own home. A small policy can fund a large amount of home health care allowing you to avoid or at least delay the need for a nursing home.

Long-Term Care Insurance Offers More Than Just Asset Protection 

Long-Term Care Insurance provides you with access to your choice of quality care in the setting you desire. These plans offer asset and income protection. But Long-Term Care Insurance is all about family. You can add peace-of-mind to your retirement plan and make sure your family will not be burdened from the high risk of needing care. People need care either due to illness, accident or the impact of aging. We are all living longer and advances in medical science make that risk even larger. Act now and plan ahead.