Marrying After 50? Get Long-Term Care Insurance & Consider Financial Issues

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Published: Nov 4th, 2015
Marrying After 50? Consider Financial Issues
Article Updated:February 19th, 2020

While many studies still show many couples decide against marriage after age 50, many still do. When you legally get married, many financial issues must be considered. So while Lennon and McCartney sang, "All You Need Is Love," the reality is you need to consider at least more than just love.

The issues to consider are numerous. You should consider items like long term health care, your assets and estate, and the impact of your new marriage on your children, your real estate, and social security. Other items should be considered before you say, "I do."

In Sickness and in Health

The concern about long-term health care may be the number one concern since so many adults over 50 will need, at some point, help with activities of daily living or supervision due to a memory issue. Many people will think this won't happen to them or will only occur when they are much older. They would be wrong on both counts. Plus, health insurance and later, Medicare(and MedicareSupplements) will not pay for a majority of these costs.

The blended family may have different feelings about how future extended care be handled when the time comes. When there is no advance plan, it creates a crisis within the family. Even close families have conflict. How will the new blended family think about these issues when no directive is provided?  

New Spouses are Responsible for Each Other's Care

In many states, spouses are responsible for each other's medical and long-term care bills. Many adults over 50 will decide not to get married and just live together for this reason – assuming they are aware.

Staying single allows you and your partner to qualify individually for Medicaid, the medical welfare program, without draining the other person's assets. However, you still must 'spend-down' your assets to qualify. As a single, in most states, this means spending down to $2000. If either partner has any savings and investments, this makes no sense.

Once married, no matter how you decide the separate your assets, in the eyes of the law, your savings are together, and you are each responsible for the other's future care.

Long-Term Care Insurance - Great Marriage Gift

So if you are getting married, you should consider purchasing Long-Term Care Insurance, assuming you both don't have a policy in place already. If you decide to cohabitate, having a policy will still protect that person's assets and reduce the burden on the other partner and the person's adult children and their families.

Generally, Long-Term Care Insurance is very affordable if purchased when you are younger and more healthy. Discounts are available for couples. Even small plans will reduce the stress otherwise placed on the rest of the family.

"Nearly 40 percent of buyers were age 54 or younger, compared to 29 percent who purchased in 2012.  Buying younger makes sense because premiums are less expensive, and several leading insurers now offer some very attractive options that allow you to increase coverage in future years, even if your health has changed, said Jesse Slome, American Association for Long-Term Care Insurance (AALTCI). 

Some companies also offer shared benefits for spouses or partners, which may be attractive if you and your new spouse are both looking for coverage.

Jane Bryant Quinn, author and a personal financial expert, says that some protections are still available even if you don't get married.

Perhaps Living Together is a Solution?

"A "living together" agreement, legally signed and notarized, provides for the division of property if you break up. A will can provide a partner with financial support. You can designate your partner as your health care advocate if that's your choice," she said.

Your estate plan is impacted directly when you get remarried. Even if your will leaves everything to children and grandchildren, in most states, spouses are automatically entitled to a share of your estate -- usually one-third to one-half.

If you don't want to leave a third or more of your assets to your new partner, get a prenuptial agreement. If you do want to leave something to your spouse and ensure your heirs receive their inheritance, a trust may be the best option. Consult an attorney for details.

If you were never married, this would be less a concern but could be a concern for your new partner if they have had children in a previous marriage.

Issues with Real Estate

Real estate is also an issue. If you're planning on living in a house one or the other owns, you then need to think about what will happen to the house when the owner dies.

If, for example, you both decide to live in your home, but you want your kids to inherit the house after you die, putting the house in both names is not an option. However, you may also not want your heirs to evict them once you die. One solution is for you to give your surviving spouse a life estate, which provides them with the right to live in your property during their lifetime. Upon death, the house will pass to heirs.

Remarriage can also affect the benefits of many divorced or widowed seniors (especially women) who receive Social Security from their former spouses. For instance, getting remarried stops a divorced spouse's benefits. And getting remarried before age 60 (50 if you are disabled) will cause widows and widowers to lose the right to survivors benefits from their former spouse. Remarrying at 60 or older, however, does not affect the survivors' benefit.

If love is in the air you better consider the impact it will have on the rest of your life. Take these issues into consideration, and with advance planning, your love will live on.

About the Author

An LTC News author focusing on long-term care and aging.

Editor's Note

When is the best time to plan for the financial costs and burdens of aging? Generally, experts suggest before your retirement, ideally in your 40s or 50s, when premiums are low, and you have the most available options to choose. However, if you re-marry at an older age you still can obtain Long-Term Care Insurance if you enjoy good health.

 Be careful. While Long-Term Care Insurance is affordable, premiums can vary dramatically between companies for the same coverage. Not all insurance agents or financial advisors work with more than one or two companies, nor do they usually understand underwriting, policy features, partnership programs, case management, and claims.

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The financial costs and burdens of aging are always a concern. When you get married again later in life addition problems should be considered. Affordable Long-Term Care Insurance will address many of these issues. It will provide you with access to your choice of quality care reducing the stress otherwise placed on your family.


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